The Magical ramblings of Love...!!!!!!!

Love is a drug that can easily be addicted

It fell so good when all is working

leave you wanting more....

it feels bad when its not working

making you sad...

you then hide yourself from the world

because its crashing down on you.

love is a drug...

but where is the cure?

should i speak to my pharmacies

for love drops...

maybe anti-love drops!

no love is jinx...

jinx, combine with the powers of the universe...

love can not be explained unless you felt it.

hey!

I just cast a love jinx on you... :-D ...

Learning to live Life in a New Way

The most awaited day of our lives we urge to come with all our heart and soul.....(althrough our childhood and teens). The day when we will be able to fly out of the comfortable and a little restricted life we live under our parents to the vast skies of Independence. The day after which we need to apply all the theories of life we learn althrough these years to practice.

The day you go for your First Job

Its the most memorable as well as most frieghtening day of ur life... where there is a lot of anticipation, happiness, apprehension, joy, contemplation... and what not.!!! To be simply put The first day of ur very first job gives u goosebumps as well as butterflies in your stomach....
It marks a milestone in the long journey of life from where "U are Responsible for your Life."

The atmosphere in the Office is completely different from the one u get althrough ur life... Its not like ur mom arms where u nestle urself during ur childhood.... Its nothing like the carefree School days..nor its like the joyous College days... Its something which decides whats is in store for you in the future...

U come to a new place where u start living ur own life where there is no one to take care of you.. no one to tell you at each step...that "Beta yeh sahi nahi...tum yahan galat ja rahe ho..". There is no one to motivate u at each step... ki "Beta achaa kar rahe ho.. aage bado..!!!

U come to new place with no frnds... no place to live...no idea of whats going on in the Office.. kya karna hai... kaise karna hai...kuch pata nahi hota (ek achaa kahsa sensible insaan bhi total confused dumbo ban jata hai) Aapko bol diya jata hai jao falan bande se falan software install karne ko bol do aapko us bande ki seat nahi pata, phone number nahi pata... litearally no clues
and us insaan k baare main kuch nahi pata hota jisne aapko software install karne ko kahan hai...(to aap firte rehte ho din bhar aur poore office k chappa chappa pata chal jata hai)

Office k bahar dusri dikkatein aapka intezaar kar rahi hoti hai to properly describe them its something like u get out of one problem of the office to step into the mouth of another devil.... the BIGGEST problem of finding a place to live in. Anjaan shehar ki anjaan gaaliyon main bhatak te rehte hai ki ek ghar mil jaye aur Gulzar ki vo lines yaad aati hai "Do deewane is shehar main....raat din dopehat main.. la la la" (bus aap k saath koi ek aur deewana nahi hota). Estate agents k saath ghar dekhna ...uski commission, and the most terrible thing uski constant baatein... can't stand it seriuosly no one can stand it.... ghar lene k bahut saare Qualification criterias ki ghar acha hona chahiye, locality achi honi chahiye, market pass hone chahiye, log ache hone chahiye..etc.etc..

Finally jab ghar mil jata hai to uske advance payments, rent, commsission sab mila kar aap kangal hone ki sthithi main aa jate ho... aur bacha kucha paise ghar k samaan lane main karch ho jate hai( serioualy tab yaad aata hai ki kaash mummy ko samaan lane main help ki hoti to aaj samaan dhund ne main itni mashakat na karni padti)

Is tarah pehla mahina poora khatam ho jata hai aur salary ki date aate aate aap ek ek pai k liye ro rahe hote..... aur tab LAST WORKING DAY vaale din hoti hai paison ki barsaaat... vo "FIRST SALARY" kitni achi lagti hai... Jis din aani hoti hai us din aap shaam se hi ATM k chakkar lagana shuru kar dete ho.. aur jaise hi usme Salary update hote dikhti hai to aisa lagta hai ki is "Duniya k RAJA aap hi ho" aur fir bante hai plans Ma k liye yeh lena hai, papa k liye vo lena, Bhai/Beheno k liye kya lena???, doston k liye bhi to kuch lena padega chota hi sahi but lena to hoga hi.. aur khud k liye bhi to kharidna hai and what not...

Aur iske saath hi bante hai aapke Office main kuch dost... jo dheere dheere har outing , har shopping aur har surprise plan k hissa ban jate hai... Office main aapke boss k saath ache terms ban jate hai... Kaam samjh main aana lagta hai infact usme maza aana lagta hai.. aap apni Nayi Life main settel hone lagte ho... saare anjaane dar door bahut door chale jate hai and U Learn to Live Life in a New Way.........!!!

Lekin....

In the path of learning a to live life in a new way... we do get a little separated from our family.... Work becomes our priority.. Ghar main mummy intezaar karti rehti hai aur chutti na milne k karan aap ghar nahi ja pate... Saare Festivals adhure se lagte hai kuynki saath main ma papa nahi hote.... Salary aane k vo maza nahi aata kuynki kuch dilane ki koi zid karne vaala paas nahi hota.... Pehle jab doston ke saath hazar party k plan bante the to un sab main se ek ho pati thi.. ab aisa to nahi hota but un parties se aap bor ho jate ho... Ghar se mummy k phone aata hai jo apne aansun chupane k liye aap ka phone hi kat deti hai... Papa chahte hai ki aap ghar aaon but bs aapki salary aur tax ki baatein kar ke hi reh jate hai. Siblings want to talk to you about things going on in their lives but u dont have time to fit it in

U miss a lot in Learning this New Way of life.... but its important to learn it... its a part of your Life.... and most importantly we need to make it easier for our Parents so that they could get use to the idea of your being an individual.. bcoz they are gonna always miss u as small as u were when u could just fit in their arms......

Although I am small and cannot say a word
these thoughts of my family I wish I could be heard......
I feel all y0ur love and the kind things you do
I get so excited that i smile and coo.
A soapy warm bath or the comb through my hair
all your soft wispers that tell me you care.
Then wrapped in your arms its safe and secure
protected with tenderness that is perfect and pure.

And if ever I am hungry or cold
with just a small wimper I am quickly consoled
You kiss an caress to stop me from weeping
them patiently wait till I am comfortably sleeping.
You make my life joyous, full of colors and fun
when I see you ech morning your face is my Sun.

So if u are not certain that your getsures are felt
look deep in my eyes and I am sure you will melt.
They say I will grow fast like the blink of an eye
but do not be sad as the time goes by.
Because I will remeber all you have given and shared
to get me through life completely prepared.

I will be the great one who stands out in the crowd
your hearts will be happy I will make u so proud.
I thank you for all that you do
and never forget that I love u tooo....